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Affirmation By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My husband is a good man, but he gets angry at the kids and says things that he later regrets. Help me convince him to be careful about these off-the-cuff comments.
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Pointing out Parenting Mistakes By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: I have a friend whose children drive me crazy when I m around them. They are the most undisciplined brats I’ve ever seen. We can’t even talk when they are around. I would love to help my friend with a few disciplinary tips. How can I do this without offending her?
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Scientific Studies On Discipline By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: What does behavioral research tell us about the best way to raise children? Have scientific studies spelled out what works and what doesn t, especially regarding how to discipline properly?
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Attention Deficit Disorder By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: I’ve heard that ADD is controversial and that it may not even exist. You obviously disagree.
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Cruelty to Animals By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My seven-year-old son has just recently begun demonstrating some rather cruel behavior toward animals. We ve caught him doing some pretty awful things to neighborhood dogs and cats. Of course, we punished him, but I wonder if there is anything to be more concerned about here?
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When to Start Disciplining ? By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: At what age should discipline begin?
DR. DOBSON: There should be no physical punishment for a child younger than 15 to 18 months, regardless of the circumstance.
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Discussing Sex with Children By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: How do I get started in discussing sex with my children? Is there a natural way to get into the topic?
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Developing Wholesome, Respectful Attitudes By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: How can I help my child develop wholesome, respectful attitudes toward people of other racial and ethnic groups?
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Newborns By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: What else does research tell us about the personalities of newborns?
DR. DOBSON: One of the most ambitious studies yet conducted took a period of three decades to complete.
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Disciplining Children By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: As an advocate of spankings as a disciplinary tool, don t you worry about the possibility that you might be contributing to the incidence of child abuse in this country?
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Good Parenting By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My wife and I are keenly aware of how difficult it is to be good parents, and at times, we feel very inadequate to do the job. How does a mom or dad know what’s best for a child from day to day?
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Strong Willed Children By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: What are the long-range implications of raising a strong-willed child? What can we expect as the years go by?
DR. DOBSON: Well, I can give you a few encouraging conclusions from our study. The tendencies of strong-willed children (SWCs) are to return to parental values when they reach adulthood.
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Adoption By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: We have an adopted girl who came to us when she was four years old. She is very difficult to handle and does pretty much what she pleases. For us to make her obey would be very unpleasant for her, and frankly, we don’t feel we have the right to do that. She has been through a lot in her short life. Besides, we’re not her real parents. Do you think she’ll be okay if we’ll just give her a lot of love and attention?
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Good Manners By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: Do you think a child should be required to say "thank you" and "please" around the house?
DR. DOBSON: I sure do. Requiring these phrases is one method of reminding the child that his is not a “gimmie-gimmie" world. Even though his mother is cooking for him and buying for him and giving to him, he must assume a few attitudinal responsibilities in return. Appreciation must be taught and this instructional process begins with fundamental politeness at home.
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Toddlers By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: I get very upset because my two-year-old boy will not sit still and be quiet in church. He knows he's not supposed to be noisy, but he hits his toys on the pew and sometimes talks out loud. Should I reprimand him for being disruptive?
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Reaction to Circumstances By Dr.James Dobson
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Question: Why some kids with every advantage and opportunity seem to turn out bad, while others raised in terrible homes become pillars in the community. You cited the life of David Hernandez as an example. What happened to him?
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Avoid Adolescent Rebellion By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My children are still in elementary school and I want to avoid adolescent rebellion in the future if I can. What can you tell me to help me get ready for this scary time?
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Preparing Children for Adulthood By Dr.James Dobson
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Question: I believe one of the primary tasks for parents is to prepare children for the independence and responsibility of adulthood. I have an infant son and I certainly want to teach him to be self-disciplined and responsible as the years unfold. But I don’t know where to start. How can I instill these characteristics in my son and how early should I begin?
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Family Vacations By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: Why is it that children are often the most obnoxious and irritating on vacations and at other times when parents specifically try to please them? On those special days, you'd think the kids would say to themselves, "Wow! Mom and Dad are doing something really nice for us, taking us on this great vacation. We're going to give them a break and be really good kids today." Isn’t that reasonable.
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Strong Willed Children By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My wife and I have a strong willed child who is incredibly difficult to handle. I honestly believe we are doing our job about as well as any parents would do under the circumstances, yet she still breaks the rules and challenges our authority. I guess I need some encouragement. First, tell me if an especially strong willed kid can be made to smile and give and work and cooperate. If so, how is that accomplished? And second, what is my daughter's future? I see trouble ahead, but don't know if that gloomy forecast is justified.
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Disrespectful Behaviour By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My six year old has suddenly become sassy and disrespectful in her manner at home. She told me to "buzz off" when I asked her to take out the trash, and she calls me names when she gets angry. I feel it is important to permit this emotional outlet, so I haven't tried to suppress it. Do you agree?
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Discipline By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: I like your idea of balancing love with discipline, but I'm not sure I can do it. My parents were extremely rigid with us and I’m determined not to make that mistake with my kids. But I don’t want to be a pushover, either. Can you give me some help in finding the middle ground between extremes?
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Bed Wetting By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: What causes a child to wet the bed? Our five year old soaks his sheets nearly every night which drives me crazy.
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Stunted Growth By Dr.James Dobson
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QUESTION: My wife and I are above average in height, being 6’3” and 5’ 9”. We both had rather tall parents, too. Nevertheless, our daughter is very tiny. She is nine years old and is only at the third percentile for height. What could be causing this and what do you think we should do?
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